Meet Your Husband’s Need for Spiritual Solidarity
First, read about the need for spiritual solidarity if you have not done so already.
Help your man to be his best self. Never attempt to influence him to compromise his values. Seek goodness and honor along with him. Work for good together with him.
Don’t try to lower his standards
Be a true friend to him by supporting him in the values that he believes are important. Doing otherwise can quickly put you in the position of his spiritual enemy.
Encourage him to take the high road
Help him to be a more noble person by encouraging him in the way that he likes to be encouraged.
Stand by him when he stands his ground
Stand by him when he stands up for his beliefs and values, even if it makes you unpopular. You would want him to do the same for you.
Sincerely seek truth and goodness together with him
The only sure way to achieve spiritual unity with your man is for each of you to find and follow spiritual truth. Since truth cannot contradict truth, if the beliefs of both of you are in accord with truth, they will be in accord with each other. As you both approach truth and goodness, you will be also be approaching each other because you will be moving toward the same spiritual position.
Work with him in parenting the children
Check out a book on raising children and read it together with your husband. Review together some quick tips for raising children.
Pray with him
Kneeling and praying to God together with him once a day can help to bring your hearts and minds together for good. Take turns leading the prayer. Thank God for the many good things he has given you, thank him for the good qualities of your mate, and ask him for help in loving each other.
Pray for him
As you sincerely ask God to bless your husband with the strength, courage, comfort, and inspiration that he might need, your attitudes toward him will become more charitable and productive. We naturally come to love those whom we serve. Praying for the benefit of someone is a form of service.
