Help Your Husband Cherish You
Be a princess
If you want a prince charming who will rescue you and take you to his castle to live happily ever after, you need to play the part. Be a woman that a man would want to rescue and live to love. A warm, sincere smile is a start. A man needs a woman who will bring beauty and cheer to his life. Learn how to meet his relationship needs, particularly his need for affection.
Be accepting of his natural efforts to cherish you
You may not appreciate some of the things he does out of concern for you. They may offend your sense of independence, or they may seem awkward. Be careful to accept those efforts graciously anyway, so that he doesn’t feel rejected. Then use thoughtful conversation and positive reinforcement to teach him how you prefer to be cherished.
Talk about it
Cherishing may mean something different to him than it does to you. Find an opportunity to discuss this subject lovingly and patiently with him.
Use positive reinforcement
When he shows his concern for you in a way that you can appreciate, tell him or show him how much you appreciate it.